Every morning I see two paths.
The first one scares me - the path where my stomach knots up before sharing my work, where my hands shake a little before hitting “publish,” where I lie awake wondering if I’m good enough.
But these fears? They’re road signs telling me I'm heading somewhere worth going.
Then there’s the other path. The one I know too well.
The path where I’d eat an entire pizza at 2 AM because I was “stressed,” where I’d scroll mindlessly through social media instead of facing my bank statements, where I’d blame the world instead of looking in the mirror.
Those struggles weren’t badges of honor - they were ways of hiding.
Look, I’ve walked both paths.
I’ve called procrastination “self-care” and labeled avoidance as “being practical.”
I got really good at explaining why I couldn’t instead of finding ways I could.
The worst part? The easy path isn’t even easy - it’s just familiar. It’s quicksand masked as a comfort zone.
Here’s what I learned the hard way: pain is inevitable, but meaningless pain is optional.
Choose the struggles that wake you up rather than numb you. Pick the battles that make you proud when you look back, even if you fail.
Stop wearing your destructive habits like they
’re war stories - they’re not.
They’re just really well-decorated prisons.
Want to know the real difference?
Good pain pushes you forward.
Bad pain just weighs you down.
Choose wisely.
Your future isn’t shaped by how much you suffer, but by what you suffer for.
Wow! Wise words,, insight. Restacking! Thank you!
Definitely, the world is hard, choose your hard.