When the Silence Feels Deafening, Remember This…
The silence before the applause is the loudest.
It screams in empty rooms. Rejected applications. Unanswered emails. Failed attempts. Moments when your dreams feel more like delusions.
You find yourself there often. In the depths of night.
When the world is silent but your mind won't shut up about why it's okay to be less. Why it's wise to want less.
Your circumstances become a jury.
Your struggles, the witnesses.
Your slow progress, the evidence.
All reaching the same verdict: "Accept where you belong!"
Belong...
Where..? How..? Why..?
And that's when it happens…
You start writing an ending to a story still being written.
You start burying your dreams under the label of “being realistic.”
You start dimming your light in the name of “being practical.”
The harsh truth:
You’re exactly where you need to be.
The messy middle.
The uncertain space between who you were and who you are becoming.
The gap between comfort and greatness.
This is where character is built. Strength is forged.
And it’s usually a slow, single clap in the auditorium for a very, very long time—just you rooting for yourself.
Refusing to stop believing.
Refusing to stop trying.
Refusing to write an ending before living the story.
The audience will come. Validation will follow.
But by then, you won't need it anymore.
Because you'll have learned what every exceptional person eventually learns:
To become extraordinary, you have to walk alone.
Solitude is not a punishment.
It's a sign that you're doing great.
Keep clapping.




In the 1987 movie Wall Street, Lou Mannheim says, “Man looks in the abyss, there's nothing staring back at him. At that moment, man finds his character. And that is what keeps him out of the abyss”.
This is amazing and a good reminder that in the end, we can only control ourselves. It's both freeing and restrictive...and we have to learn to adapt and change.